The following conversation
took place between a
grandmother and her grand-
daughter . Grandma: Jane, where are
you going?
Jane: Grandma, I am going to
School .
Grandma: Really? Please
come and sit down and let's talk for a minute before you
go. I think we still have ample
time before the Lecture
begins? Don't we?
Jane: Yes, about an hour.
Grandma: The way you are dressed, in fact, you look very
sexy.
Jane: (Smiling ) Thank you
very much ma.
Grandma: Hmmmm, Jane, I
can see you love that compliment. Please tell me, do
you need someone to have sex
with you?
Jane: Ooh, noo! Grandma.
Why this question?
Grandma: If you do not need someone to have sex with you,
then, why do you dress
'sexy'?
Jane: There's nothing to
worry about, Grannie. I just
want to.... Grandma: (cuts in)... dressed
to kill, as usual! Jane, a Godly
girl should never feel proud or
swollen-headed when
someone tells her that she
looks 'sexy'. In fact, it's a very bad and insulting
compliment.
The intention of dressing sexy
is to arouse men, That's all.
That's the reason why
prostitutes dress this way. They dress this way because
they want someone to have
sex with them and pay them.
They do everything possible to
'look sexy' and attractive -
not to just one person, but to the entire men in town!
They expose their breasts, they
wear things that will reveal all
their endowed curves -- and
even private parts of their
body -- JUST to look sexy and attractive to men, so that they
will not rest until they have a
carnal knowledge of them, for
money. Please, Jane, are you
also trying to look that way so
that you will be attractive to men for sex?
Jane looked down, and was
speechless.
Grandma: (continues) This is
the reason why you are not
getting a husband. Do you still wonder why suitable suitors
rush to take you to bed.... then,
after saying 'you are hot,'
they dump you? They feel that
you cannot stay with 'one
man' alone. Do you now realise that I, your grandma,
am not the one using
witchcraft against you?
You are young, fit and
attractive, although you are a
Christian yet you always look so worldly. When you dress
like this to School, the
probability of bringing even
the lecturer down is very high.
But remember that 'woe
betide the one by whom a righteous man is made to
fall...' I know you can
remember this scripture very
well. Well, my beloved grand-
daughter, I am done. You can
now go. Jane: Thank you very much,
Grandma. I have never looked
at it like this before. From
today onwards, I promise
never to dress again to look
sexy. I will rather dress to please
GOD and glorify GOD with
my dressing. Thank you very
much ma.
Grandma: You are welcome,
my dear. (Seeing that Jane started going
towards her room, she said).
But, are you not going to school
anymore?
Jane: I will go Grannie. I just
want to change my dress, first. Grandma: May God bless you
for doing that.
Please pass on to the females
in our lives including wives,
daughters, sisters, nieces,
cousins, next door neighbours, friends, etc.
Most sexy looking girls do
not have someone to tell them
the truth. Encourage them to
read and react to it -- just as
Jane did -- because We Are Addressed The Way We Dress.
Let us dress right to reflect the
Godliness in our lives.
May God help us.. Amen!